Why is this?

That people can never see the adverse affects of a person who cares about them when all they do is yell at everyone about every little problem that they have? For some people they want to become the person who they are talking about. Usally a mean hateful person who doesn't give 2 shits about the problems they are facing. Its like they are never good enough for the person and when someone comes along and tries to help it seems that all they do is make the situation worse for the depressed person. Why does the world have to be like this? There is no point on why people should be so hateful to another in this situation. Its not like they killed someone in their family or their pet or stole money from them. I guess this post will fall on deaf ears but oh well. In the end it makes me feel a little better about myself for getting these things out into the somewhat public eye.